Category: friends

Boredom

Sorry for the lack of posts lately. I’ve been extremely busy doing absolutely nothing. lol

I’d planned a bunch of stuff to do with TFA but since he had to go home early that is all moot. I’m more than a little disappointed but not the least bit angry. If it had been me, I’d have gone home too. Thankfully, his place didn’t get caught up in the fires.

Of course, my vacation has drastically changed now. I was thinking of going to Ft Lauderdale but the flights were hella expensive for last minute so I’m just hanging at home. The time off is enjoyable enough. I’m thinking of going for a long ride up the coast today. It has been very warm this week and would be awful to waste potentially the last warm days of the season.

I also got word today a buddy is having a little bit of domestic troubles. I’m sad for him. He is a good man. He is someone I’m honored to call a friend so I hope it all works out. He deserves to be happy. I’ll keep my fingers (and toes) crossed it does.

Anyway, I’m off to the gym to work my ‘muskles’. Later

Blogger Collision

I got to meet Mike from One 3y3 Open this weekend. He is a very nice and charming man. He was a little tipsy and acting all embarrassed. I couldn’t have cared less. We had some good conversation and laughed a lot. We bar hopped all over the castro before landing at 440 Castro. [1]aka Daddies He really liked that one.

I had a very nice time hanging out w/him and chatting about everything under the sun. I was immediately struck by his very soft lips. He really needs to post more pics of himself on the blog. [2]You listening? LOL He is here for work and being the opposite of my schedule I may not get to hang out w/him. However, even a brief meeting is better than none at all. I can add one more blogger to my list of “met in person”. Now if I could just get Large Tony on an airplane…

References

References
↑1 aka Daddies
↑2 You listening? LOL

Shout & Scream

First things first, a big shout out to Adam. Today is his birfday. He hasn’t been feeling so hot so be sure to hop over and wish him a good one!

In less exciting news, I got the “ring of death’ on my xbox 360 console last night. I was just sitting down to play the full version of Bioshock when the box suddenly shut down. On reboot, I got the fated death rings. I hate to but Microsoft gets props for having my info correct and on file. After a quick run down of this and that they had my repair order placed. Of course, it was just too be good to be true, the system was “updating” so I had to wait an hour and call back to finalize the order. Almost Microsoft, almost. lol

Sunday Loteria At Homer’s

Ok, I finally got around to editing the pics from the trip. Yours truly remembered to take his camera however, like a ditzy queer I forgot to charge the damn battery. I was lucky enough to snag some pics from the group.

Remember I said I didn’t get very much sleep the night before? Well if this doesn’t convince you, nothing will.

Sleepless Moby
sleeplessmoby

Oh yes, I was struggling the first few hours till my second wind kicked in. Ok, I actually got a nap in. heehee. Here is a sexy man I ran into at the party. He was a real gent and sweet too. I did my best to convince him to come up to SF and visit me. Did I succeed? I’ll have to get back to you on that one.

Handsome Bloke
ryder

homer was so kind and made almost everything from scratch. He really is quite the cook. Not only did he whip up a very tasty Pineapple upside-down cake, he also made some tasty homemade pizzas. YUM!

Pizzaria de homer
homerpizza
Moby N Ryder
Moby N Ryder

A gratuitous pic of my and the sexy man again. Grrr! I was such a shameless flirt. I think he liked it though.

Ryder N Moby
Ryder N Moby

What? You think I only got one pic w/him? WRONG! I also snapped off another of him and Frank together. Adorable ain’t they?

Ryder N Frank
Ryder Urswine

After a delicious feast, we played Mexican bingo (La Loteria). I have to admit, it was fun. homer had all these fun cheesy prizes if you won.

Urswine Prize
Urswine Prize

Yes, I finally won a prize too. Notice who I’m sitting next too?

Moby N Ryder trying to figure out my prize
Moby N Ryder Again

Still trying to figure it out by enlisting the help of John.

Still Confused.
Confused Moby

The next day I hung out w/Frank/John. They were such good hosts and indulged my every whim. We did lunch at one of their favorite Mexican hang-outs. I got a call from work and they got to see my bitch side.

Moby N John About to Feast
Moby N John

There are a few more pics that were promised to surface however, I will leave that to chance. One is of me doing a jiggy dance and caught in a rather hilarious pose. You’ll have to do your homework to find it. heehee.

I had a great time. homer, Frank, John and the entire cast of friends made me laugh and feel very welcome. I was very happy to finally see the famous homer Pad. I met the ninja kitties and the welfare pup. She was so old but so sweet.

Frank/John were so nice to put up with me. I had a great time hanging out with both of them. Rumor has it they are coming back up for Folsom.

Butch or Not?

Tucson is a blast. Frank/John are the host’s w/the most. They also indulged me a nap after my limited sleep yesterday.

I’ll update w/the nitty gritty later. Right now, I’m a little busy having good time. In the meantime, I thought I’d give you something to vote on.

Butch or not?


Butch?

Or, not so butch? lol

Tucson – Here I Come

Today is my Friday. I’m off at 10pm tonight and then off to Tucson to see some blog buddies early tomorrow morning. Apparently, a shindig is planned. Knowing homer, there will be more menz there than I can shake a stick at. heehee I even did some laundry so I could be presentable! That has to mean something!

I’m taking the laptop and the phone so will do my very best to take plenty of pics. You know homer isn’t camera shy so between the two of us, I’m sure we’ll digitize the whole weekend. Actually, now that I think of it, the new tivo bag will make a great travel bag for my short trip!1 My one misgiving is the sun/heat. I hope they have some sunblock because I’m still pale as a ghost. lol

To all the private inquiries, no homer is not mad at me. I guess over the recent fall out some felt he would be angry w/me.2 Kind of silly if you think about it. Anyone who would un-friend me over a difference of opinion really isn’t a friend at all. I wasn’t worried but lordy lordy, you gurls sure are nosy.3 And, I didn’t agree or disagree, I just didn’t really care for how it was handled. I make no apologies for that. homer and I have been friends online and offline for several years now. That will continue.

Lunch w/Mr. Tivo was great. Besides the free stuff, he was very fun to hang out with. We laughed a lot. I introduced him to my favorite sushi roll and he loved it. As any two gay men in SF, we talked about tech, scifi, sex, men, and gadgets. Duh! As I said below, I think I made a new friend and I’m sure we’ll hang out again soon.

As a bit of a teaser, I may have some good news to report soon. Still to early to tell but I’ll let you know as soon as I can. It promises to be a bit of a scandal as well.

1 I’m taking almost as many gadgets as I am clothes.
2 Where do people come up with this stuff?
3 For the record, I’m very nosy. The nose knows best.

Table For Two

I am meeting a guy from bear411 over lunch tomorrow. Not a date because it really isn’t sexual but we seem to chat a lot about geek stuff. I’m looking forward to it. I’m always happy to expand my circle of friends and he strikes me as a genuine fella.

He also works for Tivo and promised to bring me tchotchkes! Hell! I’d put out for that. heeehee. One can never have too much Tivo gear! Seriously though, we’ve been chatting off/on for months and decided to say hello in person. Working an odd schedule, it is hard to have a social life but I’m trying.

Of course, we are having sushi, my favorite food. Turns out he is a big fan and has never been to my favorite place in the ghaytto. I have to admit, it is nice to meet someone w/o the expectation of sex in the way. Well, I say that now but you know what a hoochie I am…

Oh My!

You have GOT to hop over and read durban bud today. His link to wisdom from Alexyss Tylor is hilarious but NOT SAFE FOR WORK.

I was eating sushi for lunch and promptly hurled a slice of halibut I was laughing so hard.

Weekend Past & Forward

Sunday, my buddy Matthew and I tramped off to the Eagle for Beer Bust. I don’t drink beer however, it is an awesome way to socialize.1 I haven’t been in quite some time since I switched to having Friday/Saturday’s off. Now that I’m back on Sunday/Monday’s off, I’m sure to go often. I met a woofy man who promised to call. He did but is leaving town on business for two weeks. Talk about leaving me high and dry. Bastard. *g* My buddy Matt tried to play the shy coy one till I shoved him into a hottie he was eyeballing. I won’t tell you what I saw them doing later on. hehehe I think he had a good time.

Afterwards, Matt wanted to go to the Power House, I was kind over it. I did stop by but didn’t stay long. I caught a ride home w/some blog buddies wherein some drama transpired. I tend to keep the drama in my personal life as minimal as possible. However, I got a real kick out of seeing some drama go down. Made my evening. At one point, someone thru a tantrum and stormed away. I did my best not to laugh. I ended up having a nice dinner at Firewood w/Chad Fox. I haven’t seen choxie in a while and it was great to relax and catch up with him.

Later, I went for a night ride on the motorcycle. Very nice cool clear evening. Drove all over the city for about 2 hours. Really nice way to wind down the night.

So this coming weekend, 2 I’m off to Tuscon to see my buddies Frank & John from Urswine Addiction and of course homer! Apparently, homer is having a vote to see what kind of dessert to make me. (hint, vote for the pineapple) It is a short trip but I’m extremely excited. I’ve never been to Tuscon. Frank/John have promised to show me around a bit. I admire them as a couple quite a bit and am honored they offered me a place to crash.3 I’m also excited to attend one of homer‘s famous feeds. All three have been to SF and we’ve all met before. homer, Frank, and John are also friends so makes things easy as far as time constraints. I wish I could stay longer as I’ve stumbled across several other folks I wouldn’t mind seeing while I’m there. Since this was a spur of the moment trip, I’m making the best of the time I have. I’m sure the boys will all show me a good time.

1 1) It’s daylight so you can see everyone and 2) Most of the guys are sober at least for a couple hours.
2 Well, my weekend starts Sunday.
3 And they have AC! lol