Why is it every time I meet a guy that rocks, he is already taken? I mean I so rarely find a guy I wanna date. WTF is up w/that?
I’ve seen this guy around town over that last few months. He often makes eye contact w/the that slow sensual “yeah, I wanna put it in you” sort of look. Today, we run into each other at the gym. We talk, great connection. So, right when I’m about to ask him on a date, he springs it on me….Oh yeah, the “I already have a boyfriend”.
They have an open relationship yadda yadda yadda but, I probably won’t go there. The great thing about 3ways is the anonymity of it all. Having a one sided connection to him now, I think it would be a spectacular failure.
*sigh*
that sucks….he’s out there somewhere….
Hi Moby! Sorry about your relationship woes. Could you do your best impression of “The Look” and post it on your blog? I would like to see your rendition of “the look”
Like the videos too. 🙂
Something kind of similiar happened to me. I was having drinks at the pub across the street with my BF’s best friend and this guy sitting at the next table kept looking at me, making eye contact, winking and smiling at me.
Of course I blushed like a silly school girl, as I do when a handsome hunk of man flirts with me. Even though I am extremely happy with my relationship.
Anyway, so later that evening, while we are still drinking he, who has now been affectionately named “Mr. Winkie”, shows up and yup he is there with his BF.
So WTF was up with that?!
I guess the dating landscape is the same in San Francisco as it is in Montreal. All the good ones are taken, and they only manage to tell you they have a boyfriend once they’ve winked at you and spoken with you.
I’m not bitter but I could be.
Good luck
p.s. I like your blog. Keep it up!
i’ve so been there bud, totally sucks. i’m convinced it’s karma kicking me in the ass for something i did in a past life.
cheers.
think of it this way, every time this happens, it means you’re one step closer to meeting that special someone. don’t lose heart.
I feel for ya Moby. I agree with you about steering clear of “open relationships”. I can barely handle one other person, much less a third. 😉
the problem w/3 ways with a couple (um……i’ve heard) is that inevitable the new guy is always into one of the couple more than the other. someone harbors resentment, it’s uncomfortable.
again…..i’ve only *heard* this.
Hmmm that sounds sooo familiar to me… it always seems that the ones who are “taken” are the ones who flirt big time with me. I don’t get it. Where were these people when they were single?? 🙂