Once again ignunce rears its ugly head. I’m catching up my on my blogroll from work when I stumble across this post from joe.my.god.
The owners of a new website basically attacked Andy/Bill of the bigmusclebears.com family of websites with the image below.
When called to task for the behavior the site owner further had this to say.
You just cannot fathom how incorrect you are. For every one of you fluffy fags that defend those two child endangering losers, we get 200 to join our REAL Bear site. Why? Because outside of GayLoserTown USA, (aka San Francisco), the rest of the gay world regrets you flaming queens even exist. Your bring the curve down for the rest of the community, and are the root cause of why we don’t have equal rights.
Forgetting for a moment the outright nastiness of the owner, most of the rights we have today are thanks to ’those flaming queens’ he so detests. In the words of Donna Sachet, "Get a clue, Mary".
I happen to know Andy and Bill from various charities here in SF. It might be worth mentioning they don’t live in SF but far be it from me to offer up petty details. They are two of the friendliest, nicest guys you could ever meet. To me, they are the poster children for the bear community. To try and defame them is childish and irresponsible. Oh, and the pics used above were all taken from charity fundraisers. Andy and Bill own bigmuscle.com, normalguy.com, and bigmusclebears.com websites. They give thousands of dollars (and I do mean thousands) every year to local and national charities. It boggles the mind to someone from our own community is now attacking them in an attempt to make a buck.
Whether you identify as a bear or not, I encourage you to spread the word NOT to do business w/this guy. People like this only understand one thing, money. So I say we hit’em where it hurts.
I’m off to celebrate w/all "those flaming queens".
I’d rather fuck a flaming queen than a fake flaming butch dude. Self loathing homosexuals are a complete turn off.
I am quite curious where you got that image from and if beartrapping.com had permission from those that are displayed in that image to use said image.
Again I’m reminded that extreme pigeonholing of ones sense of self-identity is ultimately stifling for the soul. I still don’t know what a ‘real man’ is but I do try my best to be a ‘good person’.
Well, my theory is….anyone who either does charity work, or donates to charity is more of a “man” than anyone else (hirsute or not).
Miss BearTrapthing has issues.
Sad that people would still rather place the blame on their own community (I really hate the use of that word) than look outside for where the actual prejudice resides. Actually, I take that back. The prejudice resides within their own dark little hearts.
I’d much rather take a man who is actually man enough to express himself in an honest fashion than play a role society dictates.
OK, I’m an idiot. I went to their site because I was curious. To get in I had to give some information. After I’m in, they want money. So I don’t want to give them money, but they won’t remove my information so it’s out there on their site for God knows how long. I feel stupid and I hope others won’t have to learn the hard way like I did.
SOOOOO nice meeting you last nite…Jeff and I had a ball… sorry you and Brett left so early…from what I remember… and even though i am not a BMB i am on the site… love it…
FYI: Bill and I do live in San Francisco. Be it the end of the MUNI tracks, but its still in San Francisco. 🙂