*I had this long winded rant all written out and forgot to save the damn thing.*
Ok, it has been a while since I posted any thing thought-provoking here. I’ve banished most of my inner demons1 so lately its mostly random stuff. Oh yeah, the private stuff too. The blog traffic always spikes when I post new stuff there. But, I digress.
I’ve been catching up on my blogroll the last couple days. I stumbled across a recent exploit of the little minx. Now, I admit it. I started reading him because I think he is a total hottie. I stayed because of his insight. Insight which is often very different from mine. His latest rant involves a rather explicit encounter he had recently. Hence the title. My rant isn’t a direct correlation but a spin off on a train of thought. And don’t get me wrong, a little pain can be good and even pleasurable however, I’m referring to intense pain as described in his rant.
Now, that I have your attention. *G* Yes, I have attempted to “broaden” my horizons over the years. You don’t know unless you try it right? Anytime I hear of such encounters they are often very powerful for the person(s) involved. Of course, it led me to wonder if I was missing out on something profound. Well, I can report it just isn’t for me. Even though I seem to have a high threshold for it, I resoundingly do not enjoy pain. Try as I might, I’m not capable of swapping the two in my head. I’m not kicking it, just a clarification.
For the record, I consider myself intense vanilla2 when it comes to sex. Simply put, I’m into the usual stuff but I throw in lots of passion as well. Regardless of position, I’m rarely considered passive. I can give as good as I take. To me the best part of a sexual encounter is knowing/feeling my partner is enjoying our connection and activities as much as I am. (I’m sure I’ve mentioned that before.) I’m sure I could psycho-analyze it. There is bound to be a correlation between my abuse as a child and my proclivities as an adult. Dr Freud, are you listening? Even though I can’t relate, I always find such encounters very fascinating.
Have one to share? Don’t be shy, step into my office.
2 Some might say I’m a little piggish at some things.
Thanks for the link to “the little minx”. You’re right…he IS a hottie! 😉
curious minds want to know the piggy parts. After all, Pork is the other vanilla meat…
Ok, yea he’s hot. Violence is definitely not my cup of tea, but I respect that other people have greater limits than I. As long as they don’t try to force it on me….
Like you said you tried it and it’s not for you. It’s good you have an open mind and are willing to try. I know to many people who don’t explore the possibilities even with position. They are Vanilla.